Thursday, June 28, 2012

Strange Fascinations

One of the great things about blogs is seeing ordinary everyday life. I love it when my favorite bloggers show us their house, inside their bag, make up bag, closet etc. Perhaps it's a strange fascination. Or more likely it has to do with my incurable type A obsession with organizing and a vain hope that someone has a secret to a gorgeous, perfectly organized closet besides space and money. Le sigh...Anyway, in this vein and because this was a photo of the day prompt last week here is my bag...I go back and forth between carrying a diaper bag (on weekends) and my work bag during the week. On the occasion I go somewhere besides work sans baby I switch to a purse but for the day to day office grind I use this oversized purse/briefcase so I can carry everything from my wallet and lip gloss to files, lap top, and pad folio.
The bag itself is from Target on sale for $29.99. And inside:

mechanical pencil and a pen
reading glasses
bag of "lady things"
lip gloss
red lip tint
powder
lip stick
wallet
lotion
camera
blackberry
water bottle
sun glasses
business cards
flash drive
bill I need to pay
Erin Condren life planner
work file for campaign I am working on that I have been taking home to work on at night
yogurt, my mid-morning snack
leftovers for lunch
empty bottles for pumping
3 broken watches to take to the jewelry store to be repaired
pump parts

What is in your bag?

Friday, June 22, 2012

7 months

Little Miss Margot,
Oh my goodness you are already 7 months old. I just can't believe how fast this past month went. It seems like just the other day I was writing your 6 month post and here I am writing your 7 month post a week late.

Margot you are such a joy! You are so funny. You love to talk and squeal and sing. You always seem to be excited about something. You bounce all around and waive your arms in frantic excitement. You are always making us laugh. This month you have started to move. You still can't exactly crawl but you do scoot backwards quite effectively. You also roll over from side to side. You grab at everything!

You love to play with your toys especially Gerald, Sally your new bird and your owls. But your favorite toy this month is your baby piano which you pound with glee. You still love to eat and have started eating larger chunks of food.

You have two sharp little teeth which you use to chomp on anything in site. You have always loved baths but now that you have learned to splash you really love your baths. You have really been excited to sing along with Mommy's silly songs this month especially our monkey song.

"Oh you are a monkey...a funny, funny little monkey, a monkey you are.
oh you are not a hippopotamus...rhinoceros, okapi or gazelle
no...you are a monkey...a funny, funny, margot monkey you are.
oh you are not a giraffe,..a lion, tiger or hyena
no you are a monkey. a funny funny little monkey.. you are"


You are such a happy little monkey and we love you to pieces!
Love Mommy and Daddy

7 months
weight: 17lbs
height: 25 inche?
size: 6-9months, 9months, 9-12 months

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Life Lately

I feel like I say this all of the time...but...we have been so busy! The last several weeks have been really exciting but last week was pretty horrible. I felt like it was all we could do to plough through and get to the other side. However, we had a great weekend. This week is a big one for Chris. It began with Chris' first Father's Day on Sunday, then yesterday Chris officially became the newest Associate at a firm here in Eugene. So yeah it's been a bit crazy around here.

Three weeks ago Chris' was offered an amazing position in a local plaintiffs firm. It's a firm that Chris' has admired for a while. They had been referring cases to him for the past year and the partner is someone Chris' has a lot of respect for. This new job will be a lot of work but it will also be more money for us and a lot less stress for Chris. I am so proud of my husband. He has worked so hard to complete law school, start his own practice, learn new areas of law, learn to run a business and so much more. This weekend was all about getting him ready and celebrating this new phase. Plus we all got presents! Starting with little Miss Margot. Chris picked this toy out just for her and she just loves it!
I bought this delightful summer hat, because really sometimes a girl just needs a big hat to wear with her oversized sun glasses.

 Margot agrees!
 Happy Fathers Day to both Chris and my Dad
My handsome husband in his gorgeous new suit in front of his new truck all ready for his first day.

Chris spends this week in Medford at their southern Oregon office so I am flying solo with little miss. So far so good thanks to my Mom feeding me breakfast yesterday, my Dad and Step-mom feeding me dinner and my sister coming over tonight. It really does take a village.

Saturday, June 9, 2012

Then and Now

I just had the very strange experience of reading a letter I wrote to my 26 year old self at the age of 16. This appears to have been an assignment in my honors lit class. I imagine the point of this exercise was to share my aspirations for the future as well as my perspective of high school. What did I learn from my 16 year old self? I was a brat! Oh my gosh. I was actually rather mortified to read what I wrote/thought/wanted for my life. Thank God I'm no longer 16!

Here's where I wanted to be at age 26:
-married to someone rich and looks like a young Robert Redford
-living in New York City
-writing for a magazine

While I will still admit that young Robert Redford was very attractive I would so much rather be married to my own husband--thank you very much. As for New York City and writing for a magazine I can happily say that I'm very glad neither of those two aspirations came to fruition.

As much as my current life may have horrified my 16 year old self I am very happy with it. I suppose that is the real take away--I am happy to be sitting in my little 70's ranch house in west Eugene with my husband and daughter relaxing at home on a Saturday night and quietly celebrating some recent good news.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Tuesday Night Dinner

This is a staple dinner for us. I call it clean out the fridge fried rice. It has all the merits of a good weeknight dinner: it's fast, cheap, easy, healthy and uses whatever ingredients you have on hand. I have been making this dish with some regularity since college. However, it's fair to say it's evolved a bit over the years.

As I mentioned you can make this with whatever you have on hand. However, this is a general guide.

Clean out the fridge fried rice

2 cups cooked leftover brown rice*
1 Tb fresh ginger (or 1 tsp ground ginger)
2 cloves garlic chopped
1 Tb vegetable oil
1 tsp sesame oil
1/2 onion, chopped
1 cup of whatever veggies you have on hand, chopped (here I used mushrooms and carrots)
1 cup frozen green peas thawed out
1/2 cup frozen corn thawed out
1 small can of sliced water chestnuts
2 eggs, lightly beaten
1-3 Tb soy sauce to taste
Chinese chili garlic sauce

Heat oil in skillet to medium. Add onion and veggies (if raw) and cook 2-3 minutes. Add garlic and ginger and sesame oil. Cook 1 minute. Add peas and corn and rice. Cook 2-3 minutes to fry rice. Add water chestnuts. Pour beaten egg over rice. Cook stirring until egg is cooked. Season to taste with soy sauce. And serve with chili sauce of choice.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

May Photo a Day

This is a few days late. However, I am really enjoying this photo project. It's fun to look back at the random pictures we end up taking. It has become a funny record of our month.
 Peace: playing with Margot and Bernsie her elephant
 Skyline: in our neighborhood during an evening walk
 Something I wore today: grey pencil skirt, black silk blouse and cardigan
 Fun: playing in our Johnny jump up--thank you Grampa Lamb for such a nice present!
 Birds: on Margot's curtains
 Me: in one of my favorite skirts and wearing all of my pearls at once
(it was a stressfull day, I felt the need for LOTS of pearls)
 Someone who inspires me: my sister Jessica (holding miss Margot)
 A smell I love: cilantro, topping homemade chicken coconut soup
 Something I do everyday: make a to do list
 Favorite word: as an eternal optimist a word I use all of the time
 Kitchen: farmers market veggies soon to be baby food
 Something that makes me happy: making Margot's baby food
 Mum: my first mother's day
 grass: ...
 Love: Margot loves her daddy
 what I'm reading: my June book club book
 Snack: actually dinner
 something I made: pasta with peas and prosciutto
 a favorite place: Margot having a play date at one of our favorite places, the park
 something I can't live without: my little family
(even when Miss Margot is being a grumpy pants!)
 Where I stand: under this beautiful ceiling in the University Admin building where I had a meeting
 Pink: Miss Margot's fetching pink jumper!
 Technology: one of the many ways I boycott it, my paper planner
 Something new: beautiful Mother's day present
 12 o'clock: just chillin' at home
 Something sweet: Margot loves her new piano
 The weather today: and my beautiful flowers
something beautiful: Margot wearing my 1st easter dress from 1985!

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Margot eats and eats and eats!

Miss Margot loves to eat! And I love to make Margot's food. Clearly it's a great relationship. Since Chris and I love food it's no surprise that we were very excited to start feeding Margot solid foods.

While we started* with the obligatory organic whole grain baby rice cereal we quickly moved onto sweet potatoes, egg yolk, spring peas and other veggies. We have been making all of Margot's food from scratch using organic and local ingredients as much as we can. We try to buy her veggies at the farmers market this way we can make it a fun outing out of it. Because, you know, Margot is just so aware of the whole picking her veggies, bringing them home and cooking them...To date Margot has eaten (in this order): Rice cereal, sweet potatoes, peas, egg yolk, turnips, parsnips, carrots, banana, avocado, peaches, oatmeal, mangos, apple sauce, chicken (mixed with peas), and pot roast with onions. I thought I'd just share how we prepare veggies and fruits for Miss Margot.

As a general rule I steam or roast/bake her veggies and puree them with some cultured butter, breast milk and a small sprinkling of sea salt*. We give Margot each new food for 3 days, obsessively examine her for any signs of rashes and then proceede with our next new food. We introduced a variety of veggies first. Once we started adding fruits we still made sure to give her plain cereal and veggies consistently so she wasn't becoming too used to the sweeter tastes of fruits. Obviously we do not add any sweeteners to the fruit. Once she has had the veggie or fruit we sometimes add a spice and let her try that. So far she has had cinnamon, cumin, coriander, oregano and bay. This really depends on the flavors of what she's eating and if a spice would complement those flavors. We treat introducing a spice just like introducing a new food waiting for 3 days etc.

Sweet Potatoes: Bake whole at 350 for about one hour. Peel and mash well. And if you'd like add small pat of cultured butter and a sprinkle of sea salt (unless your butter is already salted). If needed add breast milk or formula to achieve correct consistency. Once sweet potatoes have already been introduced you may add a small pinch of cinnamon.

Peas: If using fresh, shell and steam peas. If using frozen thaw and then heat in small sauce pan with a dab of water. Once warm place in food processor. Again, you may add small amount of butter.

Carrots/Parsnips/turnips: Peel and cut into uniform pieces. Roast with a small amount of olive oil (just enough to keep them from sticking) at 400 for 30-40 minutes until tender. Place in food processor with pat of butter and/or 1 Tb breast milk or formula. Puree. Keep adding liquid until achieve correct consistency.

See her beautiful farmer's market parsnips and carrots:

Peaches/Mangos/apricots: Fresh, quarter and bake at 350 until tender (about 30-40 minutes). If frozen cook slowly in small pot with just enough water to keep from sticking until tender. Puree. We either give Margot fruit on its own or mix it into oatmeal or rice cereal.

Banana: Mash ripe banana with breast milk or formula. Serve alone or mixed into cereal.

Egg yolk: You want to soft boil the egg. We do this by placing in small pot of cold water. Bringing to a boil and boiling for 4-6 minutes. Run egg under cold water and peel. Place egg yolk alone, being careful to remove all egg white, into bowl. The egg yolk should be gooey but not runny. Add pinch of organic sea salt. Mash up and serve. We first did this at about 5.5 months and Margot did not like it. We did it again 1 week ago and she loved it.

Most of her foods freeze really well. These are mashed parsnips and carrots. Once I have a puree I freeze it in ice cube trays. I sterilize the trays first. Freeze the food in the trays for a few hours and then transfer into freezer bags.

Usually I keep one or two servings in the fridge for the next day or two. I am trying to use her frozen food within a month so I try not to make too much too fast. Obviously banana, avocado and egg yolk doesn't save.

Currently Margot eats three meals of solid food each day. She has breakfast at my Mom's around 8 or 9. This usually consists of cereal, cereal mixed with fruit or just fruit. She has lunch between 12-1 of a veggie. And dinner around 6 or 6:30 of a different veggie and meat or grain. She eats between 2-4 TB at each meal and she nurses/takes a bottle 5-6 times a day. So far she has liked almost everything we've given her the only two exceptions being the initial egg and avocado. I can tell a clear preference for the food fresh vs frozen. She eats the frozen but she eats with much more gusto when the food was just prepared. For this reason I try not to make things in too large of a quantity so she has fresh food more often.

Now that I have the go ahead to give her more foods I'm always thinking up new meals for her. Once I have a little more practice making her meat, grains, beans and so on I'll do another post on that.

*I was determined to wait until Margot was 6months old to give her solids because that's what my nursing book recommended. However, at 5 months Margot was becoming so frantic during our meals that it was clearly time to give her some solids. Given how quickly she took to eating I'm thinking for her that was the right time. From 5 months-6 months she had veggies, fruit, oatmeal, rice cereal and egg yolk. Our pediatrician gave us the go ahead at her 6 month appointment to go ahead and start introducing everything at this point except dairy, wheat, peanuts, honey, sugar and citrus. We will introduce yogurt at 9 months, general dairy at a year along. We will probably wait longer on wheat. Unlike my normal type a self I actually have done almost no reading on feeding Margot. I did read the section in nourishing traditions on feeding babies and read a few articles from the Weston Price foundation. Chris says this is because they told me what I wanted to hear so I stopped. Perhaps he's right. Per the advice of the Weston Price foundation I do put small amounts of cultured organic butter some of Margot's purees along with a small sprinkling of organic sea salt. I understand this is not the mainstream advice. This is however how we choose to prepare her food. Obviously you should do your own reading and talk to your own pediatrician about what to feed your kid. That is my disclaimer.